Community Guidelines

Welcome to the Obim community. If you’re honest, kind, and respectful to others, you’ll always be welcome here. If you choose not to be, you may not last. Our goal is to allow users to express themselves freely as long as it doesn’t offend others. Everyone here at Obim is held to the same standard. We encourage you to be considerate, we need to think before you act, and abide by our community guidelines both on and offline. You heard that right: your offline behavior can lead to the termination of your Obim account.

Below is a list of our community policies. If you violate any of these policies, you might be banned from Obim. Seriously, don’t make us Swipe Left on you—because there will be no do-overs once we do. We encourage you to report any behavior that violates our policies, and read up on our Safety Tips.

Nudity/Sexual Content

We’re not asking you to cover yourself from the head down to your toes or even speak in full sentences ; but please keep it stately and appropriate for public consumption. No nudity, no sexually explicit content, and don’t document all of your sexual desires in your bio. Keep it clean and decent


Do not engage, or encourage others to engage, in any targeted abuse or harassment against any other user. This includes sending any unsolicited sexual content to your matches. Reports of stalking, threats, bullying, or intimidation, are taken very seriously.

Violence and Physical Harm

We do not tolerate violent, graphic, or gory content on Obim, or any actions or content that advocate for or threaten violence of any sort, including threatening or promoting terrorism. Physical assault, coercion, and any acts of violence are strictly prohibited.

Content that advocates for or glorifies suicide or self-harm are also not allowed. In these situations, we may take a number of steps to assist the user, including reaching out with crisis resources

Hate Speech

Any content (Both in profile and messages) that promotes, advocates for, or condones racism, bigotry, dehumanization, hatred, or violence against individuals or groups based on factors like (but not limited to) race, ethnicity, religious affiliation, disability, gender, age, national origin, sexual orientation, or gender identity is not allowed and may result in you being permanently banned.

Private Information

Don’t publicly broadcast any private information, yours, or anyone else’s. This includes social security numbers, passports, passwords, financial information, or unlisted contact information, such as phone numbers, email addresses, home/work addresses.


Don’t be fake. Be real instead. Don’t use Obim to drive people to external websites via a link or otherwise.

Promotion or Solicitation

Soliciting other users is prohibited on Obim. It’s fine to invite your matches to something that you’re doing, but if the purpose of your profile is to advertise your event or business, non-profit, political campaign, contest, or to conduct research, we may delete your account. While we’re excited that you’re doing a comedy show next week, please don’t use Obim to promote it.

Prostitution and Trafficking

Promoting or advocating for commercial sexual services, human trafficking or other non-consensual sexual acts is strictly prohibited and will result in your account being banned from Obim.


Obim has a zero-tolerance policy on predatory behavior of any kind. Anyone attempting to get other users’ private information for fraudulent or illegal activity may be banned. Any user caught sharing their own financial account information (PayPal, Venmo, etc.) for the purpose of receiving money from other users may also be banned from Obim.


Be yourself! Don’t pretend to be someone else.

Do not impersonate, or otherwise misrepresent affiliation, connection or association with, any person or entity. This includes parody accounts.


You must be 21 years of age or older to use Obim. As such, we do not allow images of unaccompanied minors. If you want to post photos of your children, please make sure that you are in the photo as well. If you see a profile that includes an unaccompanied minor, encourages harm to a minor, or depicts a minor in a sexual or suggestive way, please report it immediately.

Copyright and Trademark Infringement

If it’s not yours, don’t post it. If your Obim profile includes any work that is copyrighted or trademarked by others, don’t display it, unless you are allowed to do so.

Illegal Usage

Don’t use Obim to do anything illegal. If it’s illegal in real life, it’s illegal on Obim.

One Person, One Account

Obim accounts cannot have multiple owners, so don’t create an account with your friend or significant other. Additionally, please don’t maintain multiple Obim accounts.

Third-Party Apps

The use of any apps created by anyone other than Obim that claims to offer our service or unlock special Obim features (like auto-swipers) is not allowed.

Account Dormancy

Obim is fun to use at all times. We encourage you to keep using Obim. if you don’t log in to your Obim account in 2 years, we may delete your account for inactivity.


On Obim:

From your match list, Swipe Left on a row and tap the “Report” button to send us a quick, confidential report.

From your message screen, tap the following icon and send us a quick, confidential report:

While swiping, open a user’s profile, tap the following icon and send us a quick, confidential report:

Off Obim:

If need be, contact local law enforcement, then contact us here

Obim reserves the right to investigate and/or terminate your account without a refund of any purchases if you have misused the Service or behaved in a way that Obim regards as inappropriate, unlawful, or in violation of the Terms of Use, including actions or communications that occur off the Service but involve users you meet through the Service.